Book suggestions -

[Gitti]

Thanks for the pregnancy forum.

So let me be the first one to post a question because I have a d-i-l who is pregnant and I am looking for a good book for her. She's read all the available ones in the local library which I guess (from her account) were very mainstream.

She did buy the one from Naomi Wolf - I think it's called Misinformation?

Which book would you suggest for her?

She is not going to have a home birth because she has several pretty big fibroids in the way. But she does want to do things as natural as possible.

[Cobluegirl]

I have heard really good reviews about Dr. Sear's Pregnancy book.
Also anything from Ina May. Aviva Jill Romm also has a good one out.

[MinorityView]

I just bought the book reviewed below for my library. It might be helpful for someone who has to use a hospital.

By Ann Spencerhttp://g-ecx.images-amazon.com/images/G/01/x-locale/common/icons/drop-down-icon-small-empty-arrow._V13355991_.gif - See all my reviews (http://www.amazon.com/gp/cdp/member-reviews/A3SF1CIUM3SLX3/ref=cm_cr_dp_auth_rev?ie=UTF8&sort%5Fby=MostRecentReview) I just finished reading Homebirth in the Hospital: Integrating Natural Childbirth with Modern Medicine by Stacey Marie Kerr, a family practice physician. Kerr has an unusual background for a medical doctor; she lived for several years on The Farm, gave birth to her first baby in a birthing clinic and her second at home, and then entered medical school in her mid-30s. She strongly supports the midwifery model of care in a hospital setting. Her book explains more about her approach to birth, which she calls "integrative childbirth." She argues that by integrating the midwifery model of care with the best that modern medicine has to offer, a woman can have the "best of both worlds."

Dr. Kerr's book begins with a brief explanation of her childbirth philosophies. Next, chapter 2 explains what she means by "homebirth in the hospital." Written specifically for expectant parents, she outlines five essential elements for a successful integrative childbirth: choice, communication, continuity, confidence and trust, and control of protocols. Dr. Kerr supports natural childbirth and encourages women to birth at home or in birth centers if that is what they desire. However, she acknowledges that most women feel safer and more comfortable in a hospital setting and that the empowerment of a home birth can still be experienced in a hospital setting. She writes:

"If we combine the two styles, basing our initial care plan on the midwifery model and using the medical technology only when necessary to save lives and to serve the needs of laboring women, we have a true integration: the best of both worlds."

After these two introductory chapters, the bulk of the book contains fifteen different birth stories, including those of Kerr's two children. Each story is told through the words of the parents. Kerr also offers a brief introduction and commentary to each birth story. Some of these births were with Dr. Kerr, while others were with other integrative family physicians.

Kerr concludes with a chapter written specifically for physicians on how to practice integrative childbirth. This chapter largely repeats what was written in chapter 2. She stresses the same key elements--communication, continuity, confidence and trust, and control of protocols--from a health care provider's point of view.

I would recommend this book for pregnant women who are seeking mainstream medical care or who, due to certain circumstances, cannot choose an out-of-hospital birth. It explains how the judicious, rather than routine, use of medical technology is appropriate. For those women already immersed in natural childbirth/midwifery/home birth/unassisted ways of thinking, the book will be less useful.

Now for some nit-picking: I do have issues with the phrase "homebirth in the hospital" and with the idea that a hospital birth with an integrative physician is "the best of both worlds." Kerr argues that the key elements of home birth are "satisfaction and empowerment." However, there are other elements of giving birth at home that cannot be transposed to an institutional setting. One could certainly argue that, however satisfying or empowering, a hospital birth can never be a home birth. Not to say that one is inherently superior--just that they are inherently different, and to respect that difference. Some of the best elements of a home birth cannot really exist in a hospital setting, and likewise some of the best parts of modern medicine--especially its strengths at responding to life-threatening emergencies--cannot exist at home. The idea that there is a "best of both worlds" implies that there is an ideal way to approach childbirth, rather than acknowledging that what is best for one woman might be terrible for another.

I also worry that women who read this book may become lulled into a false sense of security that they can "have it all" when, in fact, most physicians do not practice like Dr. Kerr. I know some fabulous family doctors who do, but they are usually rarities in their communities.

Despite these concerns, I am glad that Dr. Kerr has written Homebirth in the Hospital and hope that it will inspire more physicians to adopt integrative medicine. I also hope that it will spur women into thinking more critically and carefully about their maternity care choices.

[LovingMama]

I really liked Dr. Sears pregnancy book. More connected and into appreciating pregnancy. Especially when compared to the "What to Expect.." book.

[Momtezuma Tuatara]

Old book, but good one. (http://www.amazon.com/What-Every-Pregnant-Woman-Should/dp/0140052240/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1231662886&sr=1-1)

[deesalie]

Birthing From Within
Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering

[passionatewriter]

for a hospital birth, i cant recommend The Thinking Woman's Guide to Childbirth enough. i have a list of prego books on my blog (just ignore the homebirth ones)

eta:
Those related to Natural Child Birth and Pregnancy (in no particular order):


Aromatherapy During Your Pregnancy, Fances R. Cliffford
Unassisted Homebirth, An Act of Love, Lynn M. Griesemer
The Thinking Woman’s Guide to a Better Birth, Henci Goer
Birth Over Thirty-Five, Sheila Kitzinger
The Natural Childbirth Book, Joyce Milburn & Lynnette Smith
A Good Birth, A Safe Birth, Diane Korte & Roberta Scaer
The Birth Partner, Penny Simkin
Unassisted Childbirth, Laura Kaplan Shanley
Water Birth Unplugged,Proceedings of the First International Water Birth Conference, Edited by Beverley A. Lawrence Beech
Pushed,, Jennifer Block
Taking Charge of Your Fertility, Toni Weschler
Birthing From Within, Pam England & Rob Horowitz
Hypnobirthing: A Celebration of Life, Marie F. Mongan (2 copies)
Hypnobirthing, Marie Mongan
Heart & Hands, A Midwife’s Guide to Pregnancy & Birth, Elizabeth Davis
Ina May’s Guide to Childbirrth, Ina May Gaskin
Emergency Childbirth, A Manual, Gregory J. White
Birthing From Within, Pam England & Rob Horowitz

[Quickening]

Yup, Thinking Woman's Guide to Childbirth by Henci Goer if its a hospital birth!

[bbrandonsmom]

I think you all covered them. I read quite a few, but the two I remember most where the Sears Pregnancy book and Inya May's book. He of course did not recommend a home birth, but he went though the different births and how to have a natural one in the hospital I think. Inya May I really liked. I just felt so confident in myself after reading it-Guide the Childbirth. A person could take what she says and try to apply it in a hospital setting.
I would guess a doula or hired mw might help. The mw's I interviewed had the option of delivering in a hospital for higher risk cases. Can't do much about decorating the delivery room, but maybe the recovery room to be a lot more peaceful?

[Niamh]

I loved Spiritual Midwifery.
Inas a bit too directive and medical for my liking (a lot of asking the mother to change positions, a few episiotomies.)

But her love of birth and embracing births intimacy and sexual nature inspired me quite a bit.


Passionatewriter named quite a few great ones.
The only other one I'd add is 'Gentle birth choices' - Barbara Harper. (http://www.amazon.com/Gentle-Birth-Choices-Decisions-Attendants/dp/0892814802)